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Showing posts with label minimalism. Show all posts
Showing posts with label minimalism. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 5, 2016

HOW EXTREME IS TOO EXTREME?

Stories of people full-time RVing, living off-grid or without any money at all show up in my social media feeds and are shared with me quite often. Obviously, this is telling of my interests as these sites are tailored to delivering messages and stories about the topics I've searched for or clicked on. Each time I read or watch a video about a person who has challenged the system and their own survival I get a little pang in my chest. I'm searching for a different way of living but how for out of my comfort zone am I willing to go?

Living without money

In 2000, Daniel Suelo gave away all his worldly possessions, left his last $30 in a phone booth and wandered into the wilderness of the American Southwest. This, he says, is when his life began. Although I am not interested in attempting to walk off into the desert and live in a cave myself, I do respect the decision to follow your own beliefs, however extreme they seem. He writes a blog called Zero Currency.

In his words;
"I've been totally without cents since Autumn of 2000 (except for a couple months in 2001). I don't use or accept money or conscious barter - don't take food stamps or other government dole. My philosophy is to use only what is freely given or discarded & what is already present & already running (whether or not I existed)."

Intriguing to me because I am starting to learn about foraging wild edibles (more on that in a later post).



Then, there's this 69 year old woman, Heidemarie Schwermer. Her story seems a little more accessible as she is still living in society but has found a way to go without money or material possessions. She 'had it all', owning a house and raising children and grand children but had the nagging feeling of unrest and saw the vast inequality of wealth. In 1996 she gave away all her belongings in order to experiment with the idea of living without money. Slowly but surely she has managed to step outside the existing structures and find a new way of living, free of worries and possessions.
Two years later she gave away all of her belongings in order to make an experiment where she would live without using money. Slowly but surely she has managed to step out of the existing structures and find a new way of living, free of worries and possessions. - See more at: http://livingwithoutmoney.org/about-the-film/about-heidemarie/#sthash.bD4ZQrdc.dpuf

 

But this isn't for everyone either. I am not a fan of consumerism but I do know if everyone decided to try something like this our economy would collapse. However, I do agree with her that money distracts us from what's important.

What about those living full-time in vans/motor homes/trailers?

Without Bound: Perspectives on Mobile Living focuses on the "imbalance of freedom versus comfort in modern society." This is not about homelessness but about a conscious decision to live a mobile life as a way to expand mental capacity over material things. Some are forced into this life due to divorce, financial hardship or a devastating fire but it remains that they chose this way of living over simply renting another apartment or house and filling it with things. This I can relate to.


I can't say as I am setting out to say "down with the man". It's not a political or social decision to live in my camper, but one of a desire to leave the rat race and see what I am capable of. A coworker told me recently that she thinks I'm brave in what I'm doing. I've heard this before but it never quite sits right with me. There's a large part of me that thinks those who stick with it, go to work, pay their bills and earn a retirement are the brave ones. They don't run away from the routine and structure we have evolved into, instead they face it head on. In a way I'm the one copping out and running away from going back to school or getting a "real job" with a potential for retirement with money, instead of parking my camper in my sister's backyard and eating grass and dandelions. (She's fully aware that this is my retirement plan, along with my other sister who will also be living  in her back 40)

Do you think sticking to the regular routine or selling everything and heading into the unknown is more brave? Maybe they are equally as brave in their own way?


In 1994 she founded the “Give and take central” – Germany’s first exchange circle. Two years later she gave away all of her belongings in order to make an experiment where she would live without using money. Slowly but surely she has managed to step out of the existing structures and find a new way of living, free of worries and possessions. - See more at: http://livingwithoutmoney.org/about-the-film/about-heidemarie/#sthash.bD4ZQrdc.dpuf
In 1994 she founded the “Give and take central” – Germany’s first exchange circle. Two years later she gave away all of her belongings in order to make an experiment where she would live without using money. Slowly but surely she has managed to step out of the existing structures and find a new way of living, free of worries and possessions. - See more at: http://livingwithoutmoney.org/about-the-film/about-heidemarie/#sthash.bD4ZQrdc.dpuf
In 1994 she founded the “Give and take central” – Germany’s first exchange circle. Two years later she gave away all of her belongings in order to make an experiment where she would live without using money. Slowly but surely she has managed to step out of the existing structures and find a new way of living, free of worries and possessions. - See more at: http://livingwithoutmoney.org/about-the-film/about-heidemarie/#sthash.bD4ZQrdc.dpuf


Heidemarie has published the book Das Sterntalerexperiment – mein Leben ohne Geld (“The sterntaler experiment – my life without money”)  The book is translated into Italian, Spanish, Japanese and South Korean. She has also written the book WunderWelt ohne Geld.
On Heidemarie’s website you can find more information on her thoughts, her life and her experience with living without money. Here you can also download her unpublished book In Fülle sein ohne Geld (in German) for free .
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- See more at: http://livingwithoutmoney.org/about-the-film/about-heidemarie/#sthash.bD4ZQrdc.dpuf


Heidemarie has published the book Das Sterntalerexperiment – mein Leben ohne Geld (“The sterntaler experiment – my life without money”)  The book is translated into Italian, Spanish, Japanese and South Korean. She has also written the book WunderWelt ohne Geld.
On Heidemarie’s website you can find more information on her thoughts, her life and her experience with living without money. Here you can also download her unpublished book In Fülle sein ohne Geld (in German) for free .
 3212 294 25.6K
- See more at: http://livingwithoutmoney.org/about-the-film/about-heidemarie/#sthash.bD4ZQrdc.dpuf

Sunday, March 13, 2016

ATTACHMENT TO STUFF

To sell or not to sell?


The countdown clock I put on this blog is a crazy reminder of just how little time I have left to sell the majority of my belongings...again!

I originally intended to sell everything that couldn't be of use in my camper but friends of mine have been insistent they store some of my prized collections, like my velvet paintings. I'm sure no one else is as interested in these as I am anyways and the sale price of them wouldn't come close to reflecting my love for them. So I agreed to store those and thanked my friend for the offer. There is also a number of furniture items I am having a hard time deciding whether to let go of; my 1950's table, 1970s hutch, 1950s lamp with boomerang lampshade and the coffee table my father made for me. Then there's my tiki collection that I have spent years building on, ugh, that's a hard one. Virtually nothing I own is new, therefor, it's hard or near impossible to replace once gone.




Why are we so attached?


I've been thinking a lot lately about what it is that makes us so attached to inanimate objects. It's just "stuff" after all. Sometimes it's memories that make us want to keep certain objects or the idea that we couldn't sell it for what it's worth. For me it's a mixture of sentimentality, memories, rareness and just plain enjoying having items I like to look at surrounding me.  I have sold my stuff so many times and there may only be one or two items that I still think about; that red velvet hanging lamp with black tassels or the Bride of Frankenstein candy dish, everything else has been forgotten about for the most part. That doesn't make it any easier this time though. I keep telling myself I need money more than I need things right now, which helps some, but I am surprised by how much I am fighting with myself this time around.

Do you find yourself attached to your belongings? Would you be able to sell most of it in preparation for a big move or downsizing?